Hi there,
I've read some of your replies and they are right. I, unfortunately, was at one time a screamer. I'm much better now.
The truth of the matter was that I will probably always be more emotional than some, but back then I was emotionally immature. I was too young for serious relationships, much less having kids. But I did it anyway. this isn't about me, but I just mentioned it so you'd see what I'm getting at.
The bottom line is I have matured and handle my emotions much better. Yes, I still get upset and raise my voice once in a while, but I am far quicker to calmly talk things over. I had to grow up.
So maybe that's the case when the young women you see to be dating. Try someone older or someone who seems more emotionally grounded.
My best to you.