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That's right, Sue. You have plenty of time. So just take all the time that you need and when you need reassurance, we'll be here for you!! So if you could live anywhere, where do you think it would be? I have a couple of places that I would love to try, if money were no object. Arizona would be one place because the weather is supposed to be so good. The dry air would be good for our lungs, too! There is a whole town our age that bikes and hikes and enjoys the weather. That would be pretty cool. I have no idea what kind of jobs and money there might be though.

Trish

Sue,
If you believe that you will be able to take steps I would advise that you take action and be prepared for the results. that is the only way to remove anxiety.

CD has used the above method to take you out of your state. He has done that with many people and found success. When somebody says that he/she is totally helpless and can do nothing, he says this. That opens other doors.

Sue, I appreciate your efforts. But I have found that by surrendering and asking for help it comes. I got out of my biggest disaster that way only. I prayed fervently and was shown the way.
I continue that even now and get guidance at every step.

CDM, I TOTALLY agree with you on the first part, but not the last part.

~~~~~~~~~~~ quote:"If you are not sure of anything and also worried that you will fail with every new choice you make, pl. surrender to almighty and ask for guidance. No amount of discussion will help." ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

It is ALWAYS the first thing I do, to ask the Almighty for guidance. I think Sue was having a problem with you saying that "no amount of discussion will help". Sue NEEDS US to listen to her, let her talk through her dilemma, add our thoughts, so SHE can discuss DIFFERENT possibilities with us. I think it MUST BE hard when your children are grown and you want and need to make improvements in your life but you have nobody around to talk to. Remember her boyfriend travels with his job? I think that is what Sue was implying. (Sorry Sue for speaking for you, but I wanted to let CD know that I agree with part of what he told you.)

Manjari, I know that CDMs method WILL bring success. You are right!

Trish

hi Trish,

You are cute!

Discussion may at least give us some clue.

Sue, correct me if i'm wrong, but what i think i'm hearing from you is that you're getting anxiety when you try to make some decisions... and that is because you don't trust yourself to make the right decisions?

Sometimes i have felt this way about myself. It's a difficult "space" to be in, because it just makes a person want to freeze up.

I think what cd was trying to say, is when you find you can't trust yourself, then trust a higher force. I know this works for many people. It re-routes around the self-doubt.

But i would also say, Sue, that you've got to learn to trust yourself again. Trust isn't about having guarantees you'll always make the right decisions. None of us has guarantees, Sue. It's more about love and belief in yourself, and you need that more than anything.

None of our decisions can always be right. Law of porobabilty always works. Have some faith in your thinking and leave rest to chances. Sometimes that works wonderfully.

And that probability would go more in our favor when we are comfortable with changing things that aren't working well, correct? ...as opposed to sticking with a plan that clearly is not wonderful.