That's kinda how i feel about it in my own case, das, even though people often like my advice and encourage me to coach now.
But you've gotten me thinking lately, and i don't think we should wait too long,... do you? What about if we figure out for ourselves at what point we'd be comfortable (what is our minimum), and then perhaps set a goal to reach there by a certain date?
Holly, you speak words of wisdom.
What exactly does it mean to be successful first? Define success. What needs to happen before you feel your message is valuable enough?
You and das have things to share that will benefit other people if you choose to share with them. Those who are looking for the answers you could help them find might feel they'd rather get their help NOW and not later.
Holly, regarding Coaching: Is it YOUR dream to be a coach?
If Coaching is your dream, there is something you should know. In Coaching school they taught us something I will never forget. They told us we didn't have to have it all figured out. We only need to be one step ahead of our client on the journey.
From what you've said, it sounds like you've come a long way on your journey! There are others who may enjoy the light you've carried ahead on the path. Do they care whether you've reached your destination? No, they just want to know where to take their next step.
The other thing you should know is that coaching is more about hearing what the client says and asking them questions that lead them to their own conclusions. You don't have to figure it out for them!
I took a little turn in counseling and I can tell you coaching is quite different. You don't tell the client what to do. You trust that the answer is stored within the client already. Together you do some searching and find the treasure within. It is very empowering for a client to discover it is they who already have the answers!
If you have any questions about coaching, I'd be happy to answer them. Holly, one thing I have observed by how you've shared yourself here is that you already have the signs of a fine coach. You're sensitive, you listen and you encourage
das, you have mastered the art of asking questions, which is incredibly valuable in coaching. You invoke people to share from their hearts. However, you also have a lot of valuable internet/business information to share. I'm not sure if I made a slip about using the word "coach" in that aspect, because "consultant" might be a better word. You be the judge of what fit would be better for you.
I cannot forget your dream of a Cancer hospital in India. Where does your greatest passion lie? Let your heart guide you.
So Holly, you talked about a time frame. That's an excellent idea. When were you thinking?
Someone might ask what this has to do with robots. It relates in that we are human. A robot might be built and sent off the production line complete. We are not robots and we are not perfect. If we wait for perfection before we follow our heart's desires, we could be waiting an eternity.
