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Mercilessly thrashed him, no! If that is how you see it, I am sorry. I felt he was rude and callous to someone who deserved not to be spoken down to. If I am wrong, and interpreted that incorrectly, I am sorry.
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Jellyfish
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Yes, I feel that you are wrong. The man did not deserve this at all. He made a request for prayer and that should have been done or ignored. In Japan, if anybody requests us for prayer, we do not ask why, how and why not. One particular lady in this thread seems to have said yes first and then changed her stance. That looks very insincere. I believe that insincere prayers never work.
A girl from Japan.
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Newbie
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Lordsaveme,u r right when u say cdm is tharshed but it is also right that engee is thrashed as well. she has apologised for all the tensions created.she says she did not point out what she disagreed with. its not right to ignore her apology at all.cdm has also accused her too much.
yes, a prayer request should be respected everywhere and anywhere not only in Japan.And insincere prayers never work.
why dont we look at the whole thing with a neutral stand?
why dont the whole thing be put to rest?
those who wish to pray may pray sincerely and hope that the lord above will help cdm and all those who has problems(i think that goes for each soul). those who do not, do not.
as simple as that! i hope this altercation ends.
blessings to all!
Time is precious.Don't waste it. & Learning to count your blessings will help you to smile more :-)
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The words "mountain" and "Molehill" spring to mind.... Tis is not what this thread was intended for....
Perhaps it would be time to just quietly walk away, with dignity and respect.
We must be mindful and state our cases, sure, but let us do it with love, respect and consideration. Weigh your words.
I'm done here....
Last edited by Alexandra; 04/04/07 06:45 AM.
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BellaOnline Editor Gecko
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To pray or not to pray that is the question. I do believe that CDM's original request was for help, regardless of one's pathway or religion. I do believe he had that request granted. Noone here was wrong in what they had to say.
We all spoke our own particular brand of "truth". When someone asks for help.. and as I said, CDM did not just specify prayer, they have to understand that sometimes they might not be comfortable with the help that is offered.
I find it fascinating that we have not heard anything more from CDM himself concerning all of this.
What say YOU, CDM?
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Jellyfish
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One particular lady in this thread seems to have said yes first and then changed her stance. That looks very insincere. -----------------------------------------------------------
Lordsave, me perhaps u should read this again. To err is human and forgive is divine.
cb,spirituality,amadeus and jase,
thankyou so much for your support.you have made me feel better really.i was horrified yesterday. frankly i did not mean anything.
while i did agree to a few pts linda said i did not agree to all. it was my mistake to not have pointed out specifically wht i agreed upon.and disagreed upon.i do apologise for that mistake on my part.
i am aprayer person and i have been praying for everyone in pain ever since i can remember. i sent prayers across and frankly there is no reason i shudn. i have no reason to hate anyone on ths forum or otherwise.
its a prayer request and i sincerely respect it. best regards to everyone including cdm. engee
Last edited by engee; 04/04/07 09:17 AM.
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Jellyfish
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I read that. you have tried to write something. I can see in your soul and know the truth of your personality.
A girl from Japan.
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Jellyfish
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Lordsaveme,i see that u have gota problem with me.u are picking on everything i write in any forum. i cannot change ur attitude towards me. when u say u have understood my personailty i can read mockery in it. all i can say is i dont care.
Last edited by engee; 04/05/07 05:19 AM.
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Gecko
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Let us accept each other as we find each other?
It is often difficult to express 'feelings' in type. I always try to make allowances for this.
Facts are stubborn things; and whatever may be our wishes, our inclinations, or the dictates of our passions, they cannot alter the state of facts and evidence. John Adams
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Jellyfish
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Jellyfish
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ah patience "Let us accept each other as we find each other?"
i ceratinly agree with that.i am making myself sure what i agree with and dont agree with now on.
feelings? in type? have you anything to say to me in particular?
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