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Okay why do i keep having dreams about an ex-boyfriend whom i haven't talk to in about 6 years or so he was my high school love. Okay here is my dream hes out running or something and he sees me we start talking but the weird thing is that in my dream i broke a bone in my back and i cant make any sudden moves or i will be paralyze so we start talking and he says hes waiting for a letter from the army to see if he got in or something life that and one thing leads to another and we start having sex. and in the dream it feels so real i can feel the passion between
us this isn't the first dream i have had about him could it be that i still love him or i haven't gotten over him because i regret not telling him i love him. i fill he was my soul-mate so can u please help me

kittykat2002

Dear Kitty Kat,
I think the most interesting part of this dream is the broken bone in your back and the fear that you will be paralyzed so you don't make any sudden moves. It made me think about "having backbone" or resolve about an issue. It seems like you aren't totally resolved that this is over between the two of you and that you are vulnerable or are still available anyway. It is interesting that you are afraid to make a sudden move (make a move toward him or away from him?) but as a result you are paralyzed anyway. The sex part is maybe wishful thinking...