I will be honest with you all. One night after horrible fighting and getting a chunk of my hair pulled from the roots, if it weren't for my then 1 1/2 year old coming into the kitchen, someone would have died that nite. I was serioursly contemplating grabbing a knife and using it. But my little angel got out of bed and came to me in the kitchen. I would be sitting in jail right now if it weren't for him.
I did not know this forum existed, but I had to relate to that statement. When I hit back, broke my husband's nose and actually FELT GOOD about it - I knew without a doubt it was time to get out. It could only get worse from there.
BWS does exist - I believe it. I also believe, like everything in the medical community, it can be overused. Which is a shame - because it can hurt, not help, those who actually do have it.