While you are reducing the stress in your life, I suggest using the Nioxin system. You may want to talk to your hairdresser in choosing the right formula. It is actually skin care that is compatible with hair. - skin care for your scalp. It creates a healthy environment for hair growth. It cleans off toxins that build up on your scalp and nourishes the scalp and hair follicles to promote growth.
You just decide whether your hair is fine or medium to coarse. Then decide whether it is natural or chemically enhanced (hair color or perms) Then you choose the formula that is right for your hair. Here are suggestions: (These are for early stages of thinning which is what I think you are in)
Fine Hair/natural = Bionutrient Actives (Nioxin system 1 is the new name)
Fine Hair/chemically enhanced = Bionutrient Protectives (new name is Nioxin system 3)
Medium to coarse/natural = Smoothing Actives (Nioxin system 5)
Medium to coarse/chemically enhanced = Smoothing Protectives (Nioxin system 7)
They can be found at Amazon.com here:
Nioxin products