talk to some people you know who have tattooes already and see where they got it and what they thought. Are you a man or woman? Also, what type of clothing do you feel comfortable in? That has a lot to do with it. For example, if you are a woman who likes spaghetti strings, you could get one on your upper back and just wear something with little to no back when you want to show it off. If you are a man and comfortable with sleeveless shirts, I'd go with the upper arm. That way, all you have to is wear a sleeveless or no shirt if you want to show it off. (You could wear a wifebeater or something similar). Be sure you know what you want and don't be afraid to try to get some background info on your artist if you want to. good luck