I had a dream that my daughter had children. When I woke up I told my husband the dream. He had just had a dream about her, that we were driving down the street we used to live on and she lived in a house there with several children. These were very sad dreams; we had them a year or so after she died on her 24th bday, in a single car accident on a rainy evening, going 30 mph and wearing her seat belt. Coming home to open her presents and blow out her candles. Please be careful when you drive in the rain. We had our dreams on the same night. She was single with no children.
Hi Firefly, and welcome to the forum. In your other threads you also speak about predictive dreams, but I think that this one is different in that it involves a lost loved one. This dream, although sad, may have been a message from her. I can imagine losing a child and I'm sorry to hear that you've had this experience.
I recently reviewed this book:
Bereavement Dreaming and the Individuating Soul You may find it very helpful. The author says that people who die suddenly in tragedies like this take a little while to get comfortable on the other side. The author lost her son at 16 years of age and writes about her experience as well as including some valuable information about dream interpretation in general.