Wow, what a tough situation, LRMart. I would imagine that watching your daughter "throw away" her marriage would be difficult to deal with...and accompanied by feelings of helplessness. It's especially tough when children are involved, I think.
I'm sending a prayer your way, and to your step-daughter and her family. May you all receive comfort, peace, and guidance. <img src="/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> (And feel free to share more if you need to talk. I don't want to pry, but just to let you know that you're free to do so if you wish. Sometimes, we can receive clarity but just getting our thoughts "out there"...or receiving a different perspective or encouraging word from someone. <img src="/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> )