I work from home and normally stay up late. I was asleep and my boyfriend was on his computer when he heard the news from his on line friends. I was actually sleeping down on the futon in front of the TV because it was hot, so he came in, woke me up and turned it on. He stayed home and we just sat staring at the TV all day, horrified. The people jumping from windows really got to me the most - that they would be so desperate that their only "choice" they could make was to choose themselves when to die.
His parents are both retired NY police detectives, so around 1pm I called his parents to make sure they were OK. It turns out his mom was off at her job. His dad had been out painting all morning and hadn't even turned on the TV yet so he had no idea what was going on. He answered the phone very cheerfully and I was very surprised, and asked, "Are you watching TV?" He said no, he'd been out painting, what was up? I couldn't even speak and just handed the phone to my boyfriend, saying "He doesn't even know!" and my boyfriend had to catch him up on what happened. I remember just being so further overwhelmed that here this was really important to my father-in-law - his friends were all down in that mess - and he didn't even know. He got off the phone with us quickly once he had the basics so he could start calling and see what he could do to help.