Rachel, Although I do not live in NY City, and unfortunately I also have never traveled there either, I hope that I can answer your question. In the 1960's and 70's The Russian Tea Room was very popular. I know that it closed when the original owner either got too old or had passed. Now it is open once again with the orig. owners daughter running it. But it may not be open for too long. It's being gossiped about that it isn't the same and that the daughter is running it into the ground.
Also here is a tea room directory. It is run by an already established tea business. It is a very nice site and is chok full of info. if you go to:
www.teamap.com/states/state_NY_Name.htmlyou can insert your zip and receive listings of tea rooms in your area, along with coupons from them! I hope that this helps!
Mary Caliendo
Tea Editor