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Posted By: Stephanie - Weight Loss Atheist church? - 06/25/08 03:18 AM
Does anyone here who is an atheist go to church?

I attend a Unitarian Church, well sometimes.... lol

I have heard there are actual Atheist Churches and I am curious if anyone goes to one.
Posted By: Skeptic Re: Atheist church? - 06/25/08 12:35 PM
My attendance at church is limited to weddings. I do not have any idea what the atheist church is. Perhaps an opportunity to hang out with like minded people or have your organization avoid taxes.

I looked up unitarian church and found 2 articles (wikipedia and www.unitarian.org.uk). Both describe a god belief and both are Christian. While being liberal in their outlook is a good thing I guess, it is not for me because it requires belief in a supernatural for which there is no evidence.
Posted By: Chelle - Marriage Editor Re: Atheist church? - 06/25/08 12:53 PM
Hmmm, I thought this looked interesting, because it seemed kind of contradictory to me - but apparently the atheist church was founded mainly so marriages and other ceremonies could be done by an "ordained member of the clergy" that held to the same beliefs (or non-beliefs in this case.)

Here's a link:
First Church of Atheism

It also says it is a place for people of like minds to gather and have discussions and fellowship.

I know that is a huge draw of most religions, the fellowship - the feeling that you are not alone, especially when tragedy strikes. Having my church behind me when I have had my extremely difficult problems with my oldest son has been a life-saver.

I can see that part being good for anyone - whether you believe in a higher power or not.
Posted By: Stephanie - Weight Loss Re: Atheist church? - 06/29/08 07:36 AM
My Unitarian church is very accepting of atheists. I have never felt left out in any way shape or form when attending. I like the love that is shown everyone, no matter what their faith or lack there of.

The other thing I like about Unitarianism is that it has evolved over time as we learn more via science a lot changes although the basics are the same, but UUism has no creed, we do have 7 principles though.

I suppose one reason I find it important to seek out others like me is because it is important to have a sense of community. Also, politically I believe it is important that our world view is heard too.

I value highly our separation of church and state in the USA and wish to keep it that way. One way to do that is to be involved with others of like mind.

That is interesting about the Atheist church. I really didn't know about it. I do know about the group American Atheists though.
Posted By: Phyllis Doyle Burns Re: Atheist church? - 06/29/08 07:24 PM
Stephanie, I think the fellowship aspect of a church, like Michelle says, is really important for the purpose of getting together with like-minded people and developing a support system. I think it would be great to develope an Atheist Fellowship Hall - then the word "church" would not confuse or offend anyone. Have you ever talked to other Atheists about such a venture?

Regardless of one's belief system, everyone could use some fellowship with others, in a place where they feel safe and comfortable, at ease with their beliefs and totally free to discuss what they need to.
Posted By: Lisa H Re: Atheist church? - 07/28/08 08:07 AM
I'd go if there was one near me. Pot lucks, picnics, sing-alongs, women's book clubs, kids activities. I think I'd love it, as long as they didn't mention the whole religion thing. Whyt can't people just be friends on SUndays?
Posted By: Stephanie - Weight Loss Re: Atheist church? - 07/30/08 03:13 AM
LOL

I know this might sound weird but I like some of the more "spiritual" aspects of my UU church. Like our circle of candles. If you have a joy or concern you can go up and light a candle and either do it silently or say something. It is a special time.

Also I love some of our speakers. We once had a lady that told us that to prevent hate and wars we had to "increase our we".. you know say "we" more often until "we" includes all of humankind.

The UU church is heartbroken right now due to the awful incident not too far from home. But at the same time we feel for the man who did this awful thing....
Posted By: Kendils Re: Atheist church? - 09/16/08 06:56 PM
doesn't the idea of church kind of defeat the idea of atheism?
Posted By: Chelle - Marriage Editor Re: Atheist church? - 09/16/08 07:25 PM
Like I said above, the "church" is really more a gathering of like-minded people. A chance to exchange ideas, and have the fellowship and support around you.

Atheists in the past have had to follow a more solitary path, I believe this is a way for atheists to gather together and support none another.

I suppose the word "church" was chosen more as a tongue-in-cheek thing.
Posted By: Stephanie - Weight Loss Re: Atheist church? - 09/18/08 12:45 AM
No it wasn't chosen as a tongue in cheek thing, it was chosen because that is what we call it when people go to a fellowship, congregation, etc.. on Sunday (or other days), because that defines it more than other words can.

There actually are groups like Ethical Societies that accept all kinds of beliefs. Ethical Societies is considered a religious organization.

Posted By: Chelle - Marriage Editor Re: Atheist church? - 09/18/08 01:11 AM
Ah - gotcha! smile
Posted By: Skeptic Re: Atheist church? - 09/18/08 04:03 PM

The following is the definition of Religion in the Oxford english dictionary.

1. a set of beliefs concerning the cause, nature, and purpose of the universe, esp. when considered as the creation of a superhuman agency or agencies, usually involving devotional and ritual observances, and often containing a moral code governing the conduct of human affairs.
2. a specific fundamental set of beliefs and practices generally agreed upon by a number of persons or sects: the Christian religion; the Buddhist religion.
3. the body of persons adhering to a particular set of beliefs and practices: a world council of religions.
4. the life or state of a monk, nun, etc.: to enter religion.
5. the practice of religious beliefs; ritual observance of faith.
6. something one believes in and follows devotedly; a point or matter of ethics or conscience: to make a religion of fighting prejudice.
7. religions, Archaic. religious rites.
8. Archaic. strict faithfulness; devotion: a religion to one's vow.



Ethical societies being considered religious in the U.S. seems to be related to not paying taxes.

The tax status of Ethical Societies as religious organizations has been upheld in court cases in Washington, D.C. (1957), and in Austin, Texas (2003). The Texas State Appeals Court said of the challenge by the state comptroller, "the Comptroller's test [requiring a group to demonstrate its belief in a Supreme Being] fails to include the whole range of belief systems that may, in our diverse and pluralistic society, merit the First Amendment's protection."

By definition I would argue that religion requires a belief in a "supernatural being" although point number 6 in the definition goes more to your argument. Basically anybody could get tax exemption in the U.S. based on this point. We all have something we believe in and follow devoutly, something that we derive our ethics from, therefore we are all religious. It does not follow however that the building we attend is necessarily a church. It may be a football stadium, it may just be my house.

Besides atheism is not my source of ethics. It is simply a word used to define someone who does not have a god belief. Therefore it does not even meet point 6 in the definition.

Conclusion, an atheist church is a silly notion.
Posted By: Chelle - Marriage Editor Re: Atheist church? - 09/18/08 05:24 PM
Under those rules, yes atheis "church" does not fall into the guidelines. But than neither does Buddhism, really. They do not believe in a godhead either.

I still think it is a lovely idea to have a place for atheists to gather to support one another, especially during difficult times.

When my son has been hospitalized for his Asperger's in the past- I have had my church to turn to.

It would be nice for atheists to have the same type of support system within a community of people that hold the same beliefs (or rather non-beliefs).

And it can be very lonely being the one always on the outside. I just don't think these leaders are doing anything than trying to offer a service to fellow thinkers that has not been there before.
Posted By: Delirium Re: Atheist church? - 09/24/08 04:05 AM
I agree with Kendils, I'm an atheist and I think an 'atheist church' or whatever term you'd give to the organization makes as much sense as an anarchist government.

Atheism is a lack of belief, a lack of doctrine.

As an atheist I follow a solitary path and chose to leave the concept of 'like-mindedness' behind in my family's methodist church.

However as an atheist I also understand the feeling of isolation and secrecy. The only person in my christian family that even has the slightest hint that I'm atheist is my mother; I had to endure "Don't you believe Jesus died for your sins?!" over and over (I always told her I wasn't sure, that I never met the guy and wasn't quite sure what she meant by 'sin' anyway). Lucky for me the questions stopped; she is pretty open minded and would never disown me for my beliefs - as a Christian she's just honestly fearful for my soul! However I could never outright tell her that I'm an atheist. I think if I told my grandparents they would die on the spot.

Back to the point, I think mixing the terms 'atheist' and 'church' does not make sense - however I do understand the need for support as an atheist and fully agree getting together with other atheists could be a breath of fresh air.
Posted By: Ms A Re: Atheist church? - 09/24/08 03:30 PM
Originally Posted By: Michelle Jean


Atheism is a lack of belief, a lack of doctrine.

As an atheist I follow a solitary path and chose to leave the concept of 'like-mindedness' behind in my family's methodist church.

However as an atheist I also understand the feeling of isolation and secrecy. The only person in my christian family that even has the slightest hint that I'm atheist is my mother; I had to endure "Don't you believe Jesus died for your sins?!" over and over

Back to the point, I think mixing the terms 'atheist' and 'church' does not make sense - however I do understand the need for support as an atheist and fully agree getting together with other atheists could be a breath of fresh air.



I have an advantage of many atheists/agnostics. I'm a rarity -- a second generation agnostic. So, my parents are perfectly comfortable with my not having a religion, not raising my son in a religion. No concerns for our souls, just lots for our health and well-being.

However, I don't think that we should HAVE to follow a solitary path, merely because we aren't mainstream. If you choose to, that is a different matter. Church, to me, is a sense of society, and not taking the dictionary definition, since words do evolve over time (remember when "gross" only meant 12 dozen?), I view the idea of an atheist church as a good one. The idea of a cohesive community, a support network (last thing I would want, should my dh die, is to have my support network tell me that he was in heaven, or that I would see him again after I die, the usual murmurings given at funerals) -- it's very appealing. Shared values that have nothing to do with religion... yeah, that is a plus. And maybe, just maybe, the theists would be able to see that non-theists do indeed have morals, values, ethics. I've never needed a hope of heaven or a fear of hell to keep me from doing bad things. (So, are their values less strong, that they need that external reward/threat system? I suspect, like anything, it depends on the person.)


Posted By: Delirium Re: Atheist church? - 09/25/08 12:53 AM
That's a good way to look at it...I was reading your post and the horrid image of my funeral in my family's church popped into my head! Ah! I'm twenty but death can creep upon you any time, I should write some little bit stating I do NOT want an orthodox funeral... I'll work on that smile

Posted By: cream pie Re: Atheist church? - 10/06/08 09:05 PM
Who needs a church? If you have the need to talk to someone, invite them over for coffee and cream pie cool and have a good ole time. Sounds good to me.
Posted By: Froggy_Moo Re: Atheist church? - 10/31/08 04:57 PM
I'm dealing with the whole "solitary path/isolation" thing right now. My husband and I moved to WA two years ago. We have no family close by and it's been hard making friends. We both work full time and he takes classes on-line for his Master's degree. We don't have kids and don't really plan to either. The only social interaction we get is from people at work, but it's hard to find people we would really want to socialize with outside of work. Since we aren't religious, we don't get that sense of community. I have been thinking of joinung a UU church for some time now. There are several in the area.
I think the idea of an Atheist "church" is a great one. Why should the theists be the only ones to have a sense of community.
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