This dad makes me MAD! - 04/24/08 06:48 PM
I have a colleague who is a mother of five and we get on well and I think she is FABULOUS. She knows I don't want kids but we accept each others' decisions and I've been to some of her parties.
BUT she told us something today that mad me feel mad - - on her behalf esp. as she is REALLY NICE.
It is her birthday on Saturday well the party is on Saturday and she has a boyfriend now who sounds lovely whose bought nice party shoes for her etc. ANYWAY
her ex husband (beater, cheater, total loser, glad she left him but also unfortunately the father of her children, also lovely.)
Her ex husband said he would babysit and now said he doesn't want to.
The kids all live with her and as I said to her - "They're HIS children TOO!" (as in he should take some bloody responsibility and help out on the odd occasion.)
I think he has figured out she's having a birthday party, she's not invited, don't know if he knows about her boyfriend.
But I just feel so sorry for her because the party is meant to be adults only and that was her and her boyfriends idea to give all the parents a night off and the party is meant to be a bit formal, dinner and dance and late. And now she says she doesn't even want to go to her OWN birthday party which she was looking forward to and so deserves, she seems like a good mother overall and she works SO HARD at work.
She said she may have to bring the kids along, doesn't want to, made arrangements but he's let her down. (a)I am VERY glad I don't have to worry about what to do with the kids if I want an adults night out and (b) I do feel sorry for her and think he is even MORE of a deadbeat than I already did!!
BUT she told us something today that mad me feel mad - - on her behalf esp. as she is REALLY NICE.
It is her birthday on Saturday well the party is on Saturday and she has a boyfriend now who sounds lovely whose bought nice party shoes for her etc. ANYWAY
her ex husband (beater, cheater, total loser, glad she left him but also unfortunately the father of her children, also lovely.)
Her ex husband said he would babysit and now said he doesn't want to.
The kids all live with her and as I said to her - "They're HIS children TOO!" (as in he should take some bloody responsibility and help out on the odd occasion.)
I think he has figured out she's having a birthday party, she's not invited, don't know if he knows about her boyfriend.
But I just feel so sorry for her because the party is meant to be adults only and that was her and her boyfriends idea to give all the parents a night off and the party is meant to be a bit formal, dinner and dance and late. And now she says she doesn't even want to go to her OWN birthday party which she was looking forward to and so deserves, she seems like a good mother overall and she works SO HARD at work.
She said she may have to bring the kids along, doesn't want to, made arrangements but he's let her down. (a)I am VERY glad I don't have to worry about what to do with the kids if I want an adults night out and (b) I do feel sorry for her and think he is even MORE of a deadbeat than I already did!!