Find things that make you happy! I know that seems really simplistic, but each of us have different sources of positive energy. Believe it or not I have a friend who gets happy cleaning out a drawer - well, maybe not the cleaning out, but the end result. For her that gets her in a positive mood. I like to imaging quilts or embroidery projects - that puts me in a good mood- and not looking in my junk drawers is also I good idea.