What is transforming within you?
I would say that I've gone through a LOT of transformation over the last year. My mom had a botched hip surgery last October, and now she's basically disabled, and stuck in bed. This process also triggered the onset of dementia. AND, my aunt has dementia. I now manage and oversee their care.
So, I had to clean out my mom's house. This meant that I found all these notes she'd written, that went back well into the 1980s; notes complaining about her ex-husband, her parents, co-workers.
What I learned from this - what caused such a deep shift in myself was this:
We absolutely are in charge of our own destiny. When we blame others for our suffering, we give them all the power. We have to, at some point, take responsibility for our own part - our choices - if we ever want to move forward again.
It breaks my heart that my mother had so much pain in her life, and never felt a resolution to it. But she has given me a great gift - and it's one I won't squander.
Last edited by Deanna - New Age; 09/23/15 09:16 AM.