Laughing...about the horrible feather cut. LOL
That was funny too about your son's hair.
I do think ethnic grandmas do what they feel is right, regardless. I've seen it many times. The mother of a child can say, "I don't want you to do thus and such with Tara..."
The ethnic grandmother will roll her eyes. She might not say anything, but you know she is going to do what she wants with Tara, regardless of what the baby mama said.
I think ethnic grandmas do this because they feel like my Nana felt. She'd been a mother longer than my mother had been alive! So she didn't need some young whippersnapper telling her what to do.
It's the 'Big Mama' syndrome.