Getting through the bad times...
Passions are usually flying when they're there on top of emotional let downs and physical obstacles.
When I used to counsel, I would say two things:
1.) Imagine, yesterday, and today you wake up with your parent, partner, etc. no longer there. Say due to an accident or health issue.
2.) Alter your view. Instead of objectifying an individual as a parent, child, husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend, whomever it may be a channel has become established, etc.
Step away and from an arial view, see them not as a title, but a person.
If you're in danger, however, just acknowledge what you see reflected in the mirror. That's what they're there for...
Last edited by Elleise - Clairvoyance; 11/12/12 03:30 AM.