Tina, you should be a great mother whom I dream to be eveyday. I have a 2 year son and i love him so much. The little son looks lovely seeing from a mother's eyes. I tried any possible way to get him independent from very small age even from 6 month old. I tought him to eat himself, walk himself, play himself. But after we get to live with my son's grandpa and grandma these stuff are changing and turning to another way slowly. My little son are spoiled by the grandparents. Anytime when the baby is unhappy he just cries loudly to make his voice. I have to work at daytime and can not watch them every minute from the day. I realized it's not a good way of educating a small baby. I do all my best to keep stuff go as what I think is right. Still can not get it better. I feel much frustrated. Any way to help me? Stop work?