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I will be glad to get out if this relationship. As soon as I can get something set up, which I am working on very hard, I am getting out if here. I still don't feel comfortable with my girlfreind and the neighbor lady. Now my girlfreind watches the exact same tv shows as the neighbor lady, which she never liked it watched before. Or any music, etc she also talks to her much nicer than me. She has been sick with bronchitis (my girlfreind ) and if I ask her if she us okay, she gets mad but when the neighbor lady asks, she talks to her in a sexy voice and acts all goofy. I can't wait to get out of here. She also says I Love you before she hangs up with her.

Time to move on and the sooner the better. She has no respect for you. You deserve better.

The neighbor lady's bday is this week. My girlfreind bought her bday gifts and a card. She wrote in the card and sealed it up.... Secrets hmmmm. She is definately hiding what she wrote in the neighbor lady's bday card. She makes me show her everything that I write, not anymore.

Now I find out she has the Hits fir another woman. We recently went out with this lady and she told the hostess this us my Baby/Better half (not me, the other woman she had the Hots for)..... I said nothing because I am getting out of this soon. She hugs and kisses all over this woman and the neighbor lady.... Thank Gid I don't sleep with my girlfreind, it is untelling what she does to them when I am not around... I see what she does when I am around, it dusgusts me.

Make an exit out of this relationship as soon as you can. This cannot be comfortable for you. Good luck, my friend.

I am working on it at this time. Today she is at the neighbor lady's spending time with her on her Birthday (it is the neighbor lady's Bday). Valentines day she spent half the day with the other lady. Does anyone have any suggestions?I can barely get out if the house to go to the store. Thanks everyone :)

What kind of advice are you looking for? Is it that you don't have a car or other transportation?

I have an old car...I am trying to find somewhere to go. My family rarely talks to me, not sure why. I also would like advice on if anyone thinks she wants to be with the neighbor lady (relationship/partner). From what I read online, it looks that way. She gets real giddy, etc when she is around the neighbor lady. A couple of weeks ago she invited her to our house. I had to use the restroom, came back they were sitting next to each other and covered up under the same blanket and stayed that way. They were in the dark... We watched a movie... Soon after that the neighbor lady said she had to go hone. My girlfreind whined and said do you have to go home, I love spending time with you. She buys her stuff for Birthdays, etc. She complains if she has to buy something for me and buys me dollar store items.

I think you have correctly decided that you need/want to leave, so it is just a matter of where you are going. So do you have money enough to rent a place? Or if you can't rent a place on your own, do you have any friends that might be willing to have you stay if you offered to pay them a small rent? Are you currently working?

I don't have any money to get my own place at this time, hopefully soon. Hopefully sooner than I expect. My girlfreind just went with neighbor lady to rent a movie. The neighbor kad's one freind came to town (her freind lived down the street, temporarily moved out of state, came to visit for a week)... My girlfreind got jealous over it, but when the neighbor lady invited her to go rent a movie, she jumped all over it. At this point I don't care what she does, I don't have anyone to talk to, so I write on here because I know there are other people who have similar problems and know what I am going through and looking for advice and to make freinds... Thanks for everyone's advice and listening too me, I really appreciate it.

All the signs point to this woman wanting to be with the neighbor, not you. She is taking you for a fool and does not love you. She can't even be woman enough to let you know she is no longer wanting you in her life. Maybe you are helping her pay for living expenses? This may be the only reason she is keeping you around right now.

Is there another friend you can stay with until you can get your own place? Do you work? Save all you can and get out as soon as possible.