I really like Connie's idea of carrying the baby.
If you search on "baby wearing" or "baby slings" you'll get tons of sites that sell slings. I think my favorite was the New Native Baby Carrier... oy, it's been so long, I can't remember.
I tend to like the slings better than front or back carrier packs, it just felt better.
Breastfeeding and Babywearing I know it seems impractical to have to carry your baby all the time, but really, if you think about how helpless they are, it also makes sense. In most native cultures, and cultures in countries where technology has not yet creeped in, babies are worn as a regular part of the day while mom does what mom normally does.
I know it can be hard and frustrating when you think about all the stuff you need to get done. But this first year will fly by, and when you look back you're not going to be thinking about the "stuff" you got accomplished.
I worked as a massage therapist when my babies were born, and with baby number two I actually managed to give massage while wearing her on my back LOL! It was awesome!
What's cool about the baby sling is you can breastfeed pretty comfortably while wearing baby.
I wouldn't say you have a "high" need baby at all, just a baby who knows where he's supposed to be