I started to do a yearly AIDS test as I felt I owed my now 23 year old daughter that much.
I did skip the last 2 years due to finances but need to get back into doing it.
I did my FIRST test when she was in 3rd grade - it was scary, but I knew that if I had it, I needed to make plans for her with me being a single parent.
God has been good, and up until 2 years ago, my tests have been negative. But it is scary every time as it sometimes takes years before you get symptoms.