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I have been in my current relationship for 9 months now. I love my girlfriend more than anything and know that she loves me. Here's the problem - I began having explicit dreams about her and her ex. They started in July and have continued to present - almost every night now. I dread going to sleep, because I know I am going to wake up miserable. Our relationship is beginning to suffer because of this. We have talked about it numerous times, but to no avail, they keep coming. I don't want to lose this relationship. HELP!!!!

Not sure why your dreams about your girlfriend and her ex should threaten your relationship. At the end of the day a dream is a dream. I think because you are so stressed out about it is why it keeps recurring. You have it in your subconscious all the time and it manifests in your dreams
Get a good nights sleep and if you dream about them, don't worry about it, It really is just a dream

I was trying to think of what to say and MFL said it best. Thanks!