Ira, thank you for sharing. It is very explicite and it is indeed just like in Poland it is done:)
At my home we also wait for the first star. Then my Father reads the Bible and we share oplatek. At this point one can already smell all the dishes and I am always imatient to get food:) but if there are many relations taking part, then one needs to go to each one to share oplatek with him. It takes time...
Than my Mum serves red barszcz. (Zurek or so called white barszcz - sour rye - we personally serve for Easter). There are of course 'uszka' inside (with self-picked up ground mushrooms... my parents are really 'mushroom freaks' so we have a lot of dried ones waiting to be use). Then we serve krokiety (cabbage with mushrooms rolled in crepes). Then my family eats Carp with chala (I am a vegetarian so I get one more krokiet...) we also drink kompot of dried fruit. Oh, I hated compot when I was a child... it has very specific taste...
Then we eat all the cakes! sometimes we have kutia (but it comes from the eastern parts of the country). My aunt makes noodles with poppy. My other aunt makes pierogi and mushroom soup...
On 25th we visit my grandma (and meet there other relations). On 26th we visit my second grandma (where we meet other part of the family).
There is always white linien on teh table, hay under it, and one additional dish - for unexpected guest. Couple days before Wigilia my Father buys live Carp. It swims in our bath (we take it out to the basket when we take a bath).
Oplatek is each year distributed by the church. there is a person going from flat to flat to give it to us. It is already waiting for Wigilia:)
Soon, soon... I really cannot wait:)