But for Christians, and other religions, we are taught that our beliefs affect what happens to us after death. Since I believe in Heaven and Hell - then I of course don't want to see any of my friends and family going to Hell for disbelief. And the thought that someone else that I don't know going there because I didn't do all that I could have or should have is horrible to me.
No insult is intended with these comments. You say you believe in Heaven and Hell. How would you describe your hell? Is it a fire and brimstone place where all non-believers will be eternally tortured by your obviously vengeful god. Did he create hell or did the devil? If it was the devil why did god create the devil and if god is all powerful why not just get rid of the devil?
But if not the devil then hell must be where god sends non-believers and not just sinners. So you could essentially be a good person who does not believe and go to hell but a murdering believer and go to heaven. Why give us freedom to choose and condemn us for expressing doubt. What kind of a guy needs this daily affirmation anyways, is he that insecure.
Also you justify your evangelizing by wanting to save your family from eternal damnation. Are you just as open to those of other beliefs evangelizing to you. What if Muslims knocked on your door and said you are going to hell, would you get annoyed after a while. Then if Scientologists did the same, and native americans, and Janes and Hindus and those who practice voodoo or worship Neptune the god of the sea or Seuss. They all think you are wrong with your "New" Christianity.
These are essentially just rhetorical questions, I don't expect answers or at least I don't expect good ones. I do not mean you are incapable of good answers as you may be the most rational believer I have "met". I mean that nobody can provide me with good answers, try if you wish but I have been through it a thousand times and I will counter it with facts, logic, science and common sense.