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[font:Comic Sans MS]i've read these reasonings about how the brain is wired. i first read them in college. my question,if a person has suffered permanent nerve damage at birth would that change the wiring schematic ?? i've never seen this inquiry asked or answered in a text book.

i am a man who respects and honors ALL women. i don't HAVE to LIKE a certain woman BUT i do respect and honor all women.

MY view on how I look at women ?? i see a woman as an equal to a rare piece of beautiful art. clothed or unclothed, it makes no difference to me. yes, depending on the situation there CAN BE and ARE sexual feelings involved. i also believe that a couple's mutual interests can and will lead to why a man will look at a woman the way he does.

my girl friend(Clover)and i adore Kama Sutra Art.i don't know if any of you have had the chance to examine this gorgeous Art form or not but...i'd recommend it. i would also recommend reading about Kama Sutra by the original author as well. i feel that what it all comes down to is: depending on how much you love yourself,how much you want to broaden your education, and finally, how much you love your mate, is how your brain is wired.
thanks for listening,
Duane

What are you trying to say?

As a woman, this is my fundamental mental block with a description like this: I am not an object. Art is a posession, something to view, to appreciate, to put on display, to OWN. I feel that I am a person and should be respected for much more than my physical form, and even appreaciated INSTEAD of my physical form. I am sure many man will read this and think I must be some ugly person with nothing else to appreciate, think what you want.

When I hear a song with lyrics like "the little white t-shirt sitting next to me" I think, is that all she is? Her clothing? The woman sitting there is reduced to being a white t-short and no one seems to notice.

And we wonder why rape is so easy for many men...if all women are is a piece of art, or an article of clothing, or a head of hair, or some other OBJECT, then of course, it makes sense...they are mere possesions to be taken.

Dez

what i MEANT was...i APPRECIATE ALL women...NOT as objects BUT for WHO they ARE as an INDIVIDUAL !!! i ALSO happen to think that ALL women are intelligent. i have a great Honor and Respect for ALL women as well !!!

Men who gaze at female forms are fools. Any living thing keeps producing waste. Why gaze? Better gaze at the sky.

Oh dear, we are feeling cynical today....!

Conversely, you could consider that the human body is a miracle in motion, and that whilst we are all fashioned with the same physical attributes, organs and components, everyone is different and unique, and houses a wonderful Mind....

There is THAT way of looking at it....

Bur men do not gaze at the mind.
They gaze at a body that produces waste all the time.