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#316033 05/22/07 04:36 AM
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I think that watching porno is cheating your partner. Comment.

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das #316037 05/22/07 05:52 AM
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Not if your partner watches with you.

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Very good answer. What if you are alone? I intended that.

das #324722 06/25/07 03:52 PM
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I think porn is not really cheating on your partner. I most definitely think its disrespectful but I think as humans we are curious to see it. Some people are obsessed with it, but for some its more of curiousity. It all depends on the situation.


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Watching once or twice should be sufficient if you are curious?
What if somebody watches it for long?

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Watching porn isn't cheating. Period. If one does not have ANY interaction (no physical contact, no spoken words, not even text!) with someone outside of the relationship, how is that cheating?I think people need to distinguish between cheating and breech of trust. Cheating is only one kind of breech; there are others that are NOT cheating.

If your partner knows you watch porn, and is OK with it, there is no problem with watching, or with the relationship because of it.

If your partner doesn't know you watch, you should discuss it to avoid major problems.

If you are hiding from your partner that you are watching porn, knowing that they would not approve, you are in an obvious breech of promise scenerio.

Insert just about any major relationship issue where I referenced watching porn and it pretty much applies. You have no problems when honesty and compromise lead the relationship, no matter the topic.


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How do you differentiate between cheating and breach of trust? your post is very interesting.

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Ok....simply put porn is not cheating but too much porn is mental illness. What if your man is watching 12 year olds in porn or adult girls acting like 12 year olds or man on man....that is just weird and disgusting. He is missing something that you are not providing. He is quite possibly and most probably choking the chicken more with the little DVD player than with you..."so he is getting it elsewhere" hence being sick and "cheating" in the fantasy; masturbating sense.


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Ok, if he's watching 12 year olds or adult females acting like 12 year olds, it's nothing that you are doing wrong. He is just a sick twisted puppy. He desparetly needs mental help, that's called being a pediphile. If he gets turned on by men on men....he's with the wrong person! I would get out fast and never look back.


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I am drasticially offended with gay sex being lumped in a category with pedophiles...and there is nothing weird or disgusting about gay sex... this is of course completely off topic - but judgements irk me- just because you personally aren't gay doesn't make it weird or disgusting for those of us that are...blah

on to the subject I think it can be cheating - it just depends on the relationships and the prefrences of the people involved - its a convo to be had in any relationship


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