When you decide that you want to get married, realize that it is suppose to be for the rest of your life. Are you ready to look at this person every day, day in and day out. To see one another in every bad mood, good mood, and visa versa. I moved out when I was 14, married at 16, seperated at 19, back together soon after, and he died when I was 23. Remarried at 24, spent 3 years in a very abusive relationship, he went to prison, and I have never looked back. I am still legally married to him, but hope to never see him again. I spent the next 3 years on my own with my 3 kids, and then let a friend room with us. Sometime after, neither of us know exactly when, we became a couple and have been together ever since. Now, 12 years later, he is dieing and I will again be alone, with no plans to change that. What people don't realize, is that when you marry, you not only become a partner in love, but you also become responsible for all thier debts and responsible for faults not your own. I still have people come up to me and say aren't you so-and-so's old lady, referring to either my first or second husband. This seesaw goes both ways, good and bad, and your partner takes on the same responsibilities. Make sure that is what you both want.