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theres this boy im going out with, who had taken advantage of my two best friends when he went out with them, and now hes trying to take advantage of me, me and my best friends wanna get revenge on him, nothing like intense, something like spreading a rumor!
please help me!
Hannah
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How nasty.
Why sink to his level?
Just shun him,ignore him and leave him well alone.
To do anything else will give him what he craves.
Attention.
Walk away and have nothing to do with him.
What 'revenge' could be better?
You're supposed to be a young lady, a member of the so called 'gentler sex'.
Behave like one.
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theres this boy im going out with, who had taken advantage of my two best friends when he went out with them, and now hes trying to take advantage of me, me and my best friends wanna get revenge on him, nothing like intense, something like spreading a rumor!
please help me! You say that you are going out with him. You also want to take revenge. How strange? Why not look for somebody better? Life is very precious. Do not waste it in such pursuits.
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theres this boy im going out with, who had taken advantage of my two best friends when he went out with them,
My question to you is .. then why "go out" with him in the 1st place? Walk away from this person. No need for revenge. It just creates bad energy for you (and your friends!). What comes around--goes around. He'll get his, eventually. Until then, spend some time with a guy that spends his time doing more than 'taking advantage' of girls. Life IS indeed too short to be wasting your time. Best of luck!
Lilly Calandrello Dating Editor[color:"blue"]Truth will always be truth, regardless of lack of understanding, disbelief, or ignorance ... [/color]
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have you seen the movie "john tucker must die" well, im going to spoil the end if you havent...the girls try to get revenge on john and the plan backfires on them... two wrongs dont make a right and getting "even" doesnt always make you feel good.
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Living well is the best revenge.
Engaging in rumour spreading is beneath a young woman with integrity. It panders to baseness and if it can be proven that you all did this, you've put yourself in the position of being sued for slander; and as he's not a public figure, he doesn't have to prove actual malice.
You and your friends are reponsible for taking the tack of not putting yourselves in a position to be taken advantage of.
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the best revenge is living well....why stoop to his level? i truely beleive in karma. please be kind, and treat people how you would like to be treated.
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dont waste your time darlings, a revenge will only make him feel he's really wanted
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Revenge will just continue back an fourth if your not dating him then just avoid him, if u r dating him then u should think is this what you really want there to many fish in the sea, revenge leads to bigger and worse things, your worth more than that
Rosie L
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so nice replies. I think get good advices here.
I have to confess that some times think about revenge and some times do it especialy during driving! I have to control myself, revege really devastated the life.
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