My husband has never been to a strip club, even skipping bachelor parties. He doesnt want to go because he doesn't want to, not because it would upset me. His best friend has been once and says he can't go back because teh stripper kept looking him in the eyes and he couldn't handle that.
Every person has their own triggers, and I doubt a strip club would turn on every single man in the universe. Some people just aren't comfy with strip clubs, there is nothing wrong with that.
Oh, and huby's favorite movie of all time *is* a Meg Ryan movie (GAG, i cannot stand her). He LOVES Joe Vs. the Volcano. and if i remind him of Jennifer Lopez dude he needs glasses, LOL.