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Where are ashes scattered within Gardens of Rememeberences??
please can you help. I am a teen. My problem is this....my Grandmother of whom I was very close to died a while back. I have a few questions of which I was wondering whether anyone could possibly help me with. It's just...........she was cremated and her ashes scattered in the garden Of Rememberence......I have never been..i have a question....when ashes are scattered in a Garden Of Rememberence are they scattered in EXACTLY the same spot...or spread out.? ..if spread out then how far spread out? Also WHERE (e.g. on what surface) are ashes scattered??? e.g. the grass? or WHERE? can anyone possiblyprovide me with any answers? as this is important to me.

I am sorry that you are having a difficult time thinking about all of these questions. They would best be answered by the people who manage the particular garden that you are speaking about.

In my experience, when ashes are "scattered", it means they are sprinkled about, above the ground. Unless a tree or other plants were planted and they were scattered or tilled into the ground, in the place where the tree/plants will be placed.

Do you have a way to contact someone who was there? That is probably the best way to get answers to your questions.

Best to you,
Corinne