So me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year, and everything, including our sexlife was great. But a month ago, the condom broke during sex. I took the morning after pill, and thought that was the end of it - its happened before, with no problems. But then whenever we tried having sex after this event, as soon as he put a condom on, he lost his erection, cos he was so paranoid about it breaking again. So after a week of this, we just went back to basics, i.e, handjobs. Then when I came on my period 2 weeks later, I thought great, he won't be paranoid anymore! =) but now he hasn't even tried to put a condom on. He just expects me to give him a handjob. I've tried hinting at it, like when he came over to mine, I asked if he was bringing condoms, but to no effect. It's been a month since we last had sex and it's really worrying me. He's still as affectionate as ever, and says he loves me, but I feel so low about it, and don't know what to say. He's started to notice, and when he asks whats wrong, I just say nothing. <img src="/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />