hi butterfly, glad that you are safe and well, how incredibly stupid some of these judges are. i hope they throw the book at that kid and he gets what he deserves. until he admits what he did and is actually sorry for it, then he is living a lie and his poor mother, she is the one who is suffering. i feel so bad for her. please give her my condalences, and i hope and pray that she has a little peace when this is all over(not that it will ever be over, but when this part of it is) take care and keep us posted. merwyn