i lost my two boys through miscarriage so i know about feeling empty it does improve with time.writing things down does help i had a journal for me to put everything in i was feeling which is fine as you are going through a grieving process. why dont you write ltters to your boys tell them how much you love them and think of them and what the weather is like what you did today anything that tells them about you and save them so when they come to find you they have your love for all the years they missed!
maybe you should get involved with your local youth group or school or somewhere children need you this will help i am a youth leader now at my church its helped me no end
most of all dont be so hard on yourself you are a good mum at least you cared enough to do what was right for your boys many out there dont give a toss
im also a pray guardian now for two cambodian orphans who have no one the charity is called warm blankets
they have 65 orphanages and are desparate for people like you and me to pray for a child!
go to
www.prayforanorphan.org www.warmblankets.orgyou just fill in your details and they send you an email with the details of your child!
take one day at a time and be good to you!!
big hugs
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