So he saw the letter, read it and he agrees. First of all both of them it is always scary when they say something because it rarely is what they end up doing and with this especially because he has freaked out so many times about this and now not only does he agree but he is calm about it. Mom started doing one of the few changes she wants to do in the house before he came back (he even helped her a little bit) and now he is walking around outside like he is about to die. She says she wants to hurry up to do that this month.
But of course she had to cause some drama since dad did not. We were talking before I came here and I was just agreeing with her and she changed her attitude and attacked me defending him!