I think forgiveness all around can just be hard, right?
One of the books I've enjoyed reading in the past is A Course in Miracles. At the highest vibration of Love and Compassion, it's said that forgiveness is not even necessary, because at that level, we are so in-tune with being a Divine Being in a body, we'll find it very easy to separate the behavior of a limited mind (in a body) from the Soul itself.
It's like we know we are all just here for the experience - we are not the body (and it's behaviors), we are the Soul enjoying the experience.
I think it would be amazing to be at that level of consciousness