Talking things out is always helpful - clears the table and helps simplify the problem. You know you're not alone.
I went to the mall - I bought a few tops and slacks. They were more for next fall and winter than now. I used a seat belt cinch that had velcro on it and it put holes in a lot of my tops - in the tummy area. Some of these items were on the clearance rack.
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