Churches can be viewed as bees or beehives as they work together busily attempting to gather converts (pollen) and to create good works (honey).
Your grandma bee has a stinger! Now that your parents are defending themselves (remember how your dad was helping your swat one away?), the bee is going off to join the rest of the hive in the garbage bag.
And do you see how you do NOT recognize the efforts that your parents believe they are making in improving your relationship? That is why the "money" is not enough.