My mom was trying to get to me by telling me about what they would do if they would some day take a little vacation where we used to live and I told her calmly that what she was trying to do would not work, that I will not get worked up and I told her also that since then I was doing very good and that if she decided that it was stupid and that she wanted a relationship again with me that she would be the one who will need to take the first step. She acted like she does in real life when confronted and when she does not win which is act like a child who just been told no. Also we were in our old house but we were acting like it was our new house.
