I used to be afraid to drive. But I got over it. I think Lisa's approach to slowly see the benefits of what you fear and to take small steps to desensitize would work for lots of fears. If you like, maybe we can brainstorm some baby steps to help you with your fear? And I do recommend Lisa's book.
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