I thought I replied to this, I apologize that I didn't!
That definitely sounds like a frustrating situation. Life can be chaos .
Sometimes life gives you a shake and says "nothing will go as you planned it to - just accept it" .
I'm glad you were ok!
I admit a pet peeve of mine is if I might be hurt and Bob doesn't react in a way I think is appropriate. He is getting better about it, because I'm training him. I think guys are raised to shrug off injuries and say "it's no big deal". So it's up to us to retrain them.