Oh, and I just saw your reply about my kids' laundry! True that I can just ignore their dirty laundry--and should.

Yet, I do not want dirty laundry in the house anywhere as I think that filth attracts bugs and vermin. Plus, it smells after a while and breaks down the fabric of the clothing.

Because my daughter is dependent upon me/us for her care and clothing, I can't ignore that.

I honestly do not control their behavior or activities so this is the ONE thing that matters to me. Bring down your dirty laundry. My daughter just brought down her brother's for him.

I guess I will have to "remind" them and not think of it as complaining.

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