Well, Nancy, your dreams make perfect sense then, don't they?
You'd love to be someone else, to live a different life. In your dreams, you get to try on different personas.
Everyone needs to explore and experiment to find out what is wanted and what is not wanted for their reality. Most of our lives are spent trying to figure this all out.
Ask yourself, "What is it that I really want? When I die and look back on my life, what would I want to have experienced? What lessons do I want to learn before I go?"
That's a great start.
As for the interp of the second dream, just set it aside for now. Look back on it later in life.