That is great that you are making such progress. Celebrate those small steps!
I know it's challenging, but maybe there's a way to start thinking of it as pretty right now. It's pretty and in progress, and that's fine. Any house will always be in progress. There will always be things to do. And that's OK. It can still be pretty right now, in its own special way.
I'll put the white trash comment in the self esteem area since I think it's more along those lines than the organizational lines.