Ultimately, the choice is always yours. And yes, you have to do what works for both parties.
However, know that HIV/AIDS doesn't care if you are with someone for keeps. It will infect someone in a long term relationship the same as it will infect someone who just had a one night stand. Lots of people infected with HIV/AIDS were in a long term relationship with just one person. There is just no way to account for the people they have slept with in the past and whether or not those people have been exposed to HIV/AIDS. Statistics show that one out of every four people who have HIV/AIDS don't know that they have it.
I wouldn't recommend that you live in fear. Just know that your choices may have long lasting consequences.
Last edited by Jontay HIVandAIDS; 04/19/11 12:56 PM.