It's been almiost 3 years since I left my ex. Just last month he apparently remembered he has kids, and my mom has been running supervised visits once a week since.

He has a new fiance and life seems good. But why can't I? I mean, I have my life - a house, job, the kids, etc. But how do *I* move on too? I have thought about this a lot, and I know for sure I definately want nothing to do with him, so that's not the issue. I think I am simply terrified of being betrayed again.

So how do you get past that and ever have a new relationship?

Dez