LMAO - to the Parrot response. Okay...straight up. The first thing i wanna say is..if he smokes pot it is not a crime. :] Its probably one of the few things he is doing right. LOL Whats a crime is to be that fat and to let some guy control your "self"-esteem ..its called self-esteem..But she wont get it, since shes stooopid enough to get pregnant again because she feels [lonely.] Pathetic and low self-esteem dating a complete moron...WHO ARE U HANGING OUT WITH! (thats what i had to ask myself) Indeed you should be annoyed, disgusted, and fuckin irritated. A friend like that only ruins your high, or positive vibes. Lets not play God here, if shes [censored] up..shes old enough to figure out her next move. You dont wanna be a mom, well guess what dear...you were hers..(just like i was to my DB friend) Step one, You missy-Stop criticizing her..and check your hands before you point the finger. In the long run; if your soul has been judgmental only you will get hurt. So what if you helped her out through some things...what do you want in return?! Move on sister... Listen to your husband and let that [censored] be. She sounds like a big! headache anyways. - I had a "friend" that always [censored] up every time i seemed to be having the best time with my now husband. She'd call me crying, that her METH addict boyfriend just hit her. And like a dumb [censored]..i'd leave my man to go and save her for the 100 time! The stooopid girl lets call her DB for dumb ... hahaha ..She didn't graduate, moved in with him, became an addict herself, had sooo many abortions, and through all that i held her hand. The guy seemed chill not nearly as trashy as the guy u described above. But this guy had an addiction, went to jail a couple of times and got her knocked out and knocked up...Guess who took her to go see him in jail, guess who took her to the doctor, guess who was there for this girl.....ME! Leaving my to do's aside for her, because i wanted to help. The guy lets call him JA for...Jack...hahahah..ur getting my flow? right.. Sooo JA would always ruin our girl's night, would causes scenes everywhere we went, this guy was so conflicted that he even said my husband was hitting on her. They'd vandalize each other's stuff, got her car re-poed, stole her phone and lap top for drugs...DB had to go and get the lap top from the drug dealer herself. Pff... DB and to top it off..shes not even sure about her sexual orientation. Not even gonna front about it, she even tried to get with me. And JA is a loser without a job or a HS diploma.. Its like a match made in heaven. Not my biznus anymore..Oh ya..and did i mention DB got pregnant? and wanted me to be the God-mother...FORGET IT...I'm suprised the baby came out healthy..her "man" always said she used drugs throughout the pregnancy. [Shrugs] I bounced like tigger out of that fuckin mess...and you my friend, should do the same. Even her sister told me she doesn't deal with DB because shes soo dumb. BTW, dont delete her phone number..save her under DB so when she calls u.. decline that [censored] or change ur number. ~You just cant help people that don't even know how screwed up they are~even...if u tell them to their face. -Brutally honest