chica13801 you are blessed to be so mature at such a young age... yes, you're right. I'm almost 60 years old and it is the same drama with different players. The crazies will always be there LOL! No worries though... you will get better at handling them. I have learned one thing though.. every phase in my life has been preparation for the next phase. Focus on living your best right where you are and when it's time to move on you'll be ready. I have been single for 20 years. Wouldn't recommend it to anyone. Every morning I still awake expecting a man with beautiful eyes to show up brimming with I love yous! And if it doesn't happen, I still had fun. The best is yet to come!