Lolipop...You need to suck it up and get on birth control!

You have a lot of your life left to have a family. This was not meant to be, and was a blessing in disguise!

Are you finished with school?
Do you have a job?
Do you have money in the bank?
Do you know how much money you need to raise a child?
Can you afford a place to live?
Do you realize this country is headed toward a depression?
Do you know how many people have/are losing their jobs?

You need to grow up and use birth control until you answer these questions.

Sorry for the bluntness but you are headed in the wrong direction. You are not even an adult yet.