HI,
I had to post again when I read the end of the above post. It can get better & easier. It will take some time. To Julie, if you have the opinion that it will not get better then it won't. Everyone else who lost someone said that it does get better. I think that is up to the indivdual who lost someone, if they want life to get better or not.
Julie you gave Rod alot of good suggestions. But to say that it wont' get better is in a way defeating the purpose of the good things you advised. Judy